dkrc Chapter 188 He Just Did The Wrong Question, Not The Wrong Person.
Chapter 188 He Just Did The Wrong Question, Not The Wrong Person.
"Can we say that such a student is stupid or incompetent?"
After Jiang Feng asked this question.
At least twenty or thirty parents looked down at the score sheets in their hands and pondered.
Isn’t this talking about their children?
Obviously the scores in other subjects are not low.
However, because of the severe score increase in one or two subjects, the overall score dropped.
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Jiang Feng casually dismissed the students in the class first.
As students stand here, there are some things that parents would not be comfortable saying.
Then he stood on the podium and watched all this.
In the eyes of these parents.
Although my children's scores in other subjects are very high, their overall scores are not as good as those of well-balanced students.
From the bottom of their hearts, these parents do not think that their children are stupid or incompetent.
They will only think that their children are smart, but they just don’t study hard.
Don’t take learning seriously.
Will not spend playing time on lame subjects.
Finally, I would like to reprimand you with some very classic words.
"You go to school for yourself, not for me, whether you like to learn or not."
"The family spends money on you to study, to eat and to clothe you. Can't it save you some worry? Why can't you get into that one subject?"
"Why can't I pass? There are so many other subjects that I can pass, so why can't I pass this one? It's not that you didn't study hard, otherwise why couldn't you pass?"
Although the words may be correct, and contain the parents' expectation that their children will succeed.
But completely ignoring the specific situation of the students themselves is really of no use to the students.
He didn't even know the reason why he was so low in this subject, so he just lectured him a few words.
How can we solve the problem if we can't find the root cause?
If all students could just say a few words like this and study hard, they would all be sent to Qingbei.
Teach by precept and example.
What about teaching by words?
Just teaching your son by example will probably kill 90% of the parents.
"Teacher Jiang, I have seen your lectures on Douyin. You taught Chinese very thoroughly and you can get along with the students. I feel more at ease in the Chinese aspect. But what do you think my child should do if he is lame in English? He has been in junior high school since From the beginning, it was always 40 or 50 points, and I wanted to break his legs."
One of the male patriarchs raised his hand.
When he said this with a helpless tone, several parents around him wanted to laugh.
Jiang Feng answered him seriously: "You only know that he got 40 or 50 points in the English test, but have you ever communicated with him about what exactly you don't understand and why?"
"Or to put it another way, did you read his test paper carefully and ask him what he didn't do well?"
"Suppose he scored 40 points last time and 50 points this time. Did you encourage him to say that he has made progress and will continue to do so next time? What children sometimes need may not be praise or criticism, but encouragement."
"He just did the wrong question, not the wrong person."
Jiang Feng's voice was very calm, without any accusation.
The parent was silent on the spot.
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And in the live broadcast room.
Many viewers couldn't sit still at this time.
This entry point is very good!
Most of the time when parents see poor grades, they may give them a lecture.
In serious cases, you may even get beaten.
But few parents will even take a look at their children's test papers, and never look at them from their children's perspective.
It's very simple. If you do well in the exam, you will praise it. If you do poorly in the exam, you will scold it.
In fact, it does not help their children's learning at all. Such parents are just outsiders.
And Jiang Feng's last sentence: The child just did the wrong question, not the wrong person.
It made many viewers excited!
It makes so much sense!
【Fuck! This last sentence simply speaks to my heart! Teacher Jiang, you are simply my Internet mouthpiece! I totally feel the same way, I’m getting pimples all over my skin! 】
[I just got the wrong question, not the wrong person... Interesting, this is a good saying! Support Teacher Jiang! 】
[This sentence is very high-level. Teacher Jiang deserves to be a Chinese teacher! 】
[Day, it’s so real. My dad is like this. Every time he does poorly in an exam, he scolds him all over the place. He has never read the test paper and never asked why he did poorly. Every time we talk, it’s like: Whose family’s xxx is like? Tired. 】
[Thank you upstairs, it brought back bad memories again. My mother was like this back then. She kept talking every day about how my relative's xxx was doing and how well she did in the exam. She compared me to nothing. But she had never considered that people could hire one-to-one tutors and have someone pick her up from school every day. 】
[Forgive me, I have already gone to college and have no education now. I can only praise you very simply and crudely: Teacher Jiang is awesome! 】
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