Immortal Becomes a Stay-at-home Dad After Return

Chapter 169

Tiantian's sudden cry stunned everyone.

Like the weather in June, the last second was sunny, but the next second was a sudden thunderstorm.

It's really cloudy and sunny. I can't think about it at all.

My brother was also frightened. He quickly put the marble back in front of Tiantian and comforted: "don't cry, I'll give you the marble back..."

However, Tian Tian was completely indifferent and cried bitterly.

The moment the woman heard her cry, she stood up from the card seat in a panic.

She quickly came to the fence and found Tiantian sitting on the cushion crying very sad. She couldn't help but change her face and came to Tiantian angrily.

"Baby, what's the matter? Did they bully you? Don't cry, tell mommy that mommy is in charge of you... "

The woman put Tian Tian in her arms with a distressed face, and then comforted her gently.

Seeing this, my brother immediately pleaded, "we didn't bully her!"

The younger brother also echoed: "we were playing marbles just now. We didn't bully her. She suddenly cried!"

Although the two brothers often bump and fight, when they need to be consistent with each other, it's not ambiguous at all.

Tian Tian cried very sad. When she saw the woman coming, she immediately rushed into the woman's arms.

The woman comforted her for a while. Seeing that Tian Tian couldn't stop crying, she glared at the brothers.

At this time, the little guy couldn't see it and quickly explained, "aunt, we didn't bully Tiantian! We're playing games! She cried angrily when she lost... "

The attitude of women also made the brothers feel wronged.

After hearing this, my brother immediately pouted and muttered, "yes, she can't afford to lose!"

The younger brother may think it has nothing to do with himself, so he immediately made a face at Tiantian and said with a laugh: "that's right, Tiantian can't afford to lose! Shame... "

My brother's move was not malicious. On the contrary, it was his good intention.

Because when they used to play games, if anyone couldn't afford to cry, everyone would use this way to make him stop crying and stimulate each other's competitive heart in turn.

This is a common method of encouragement among children.

But in the woman's view, it was a malicious provocation, so she was immediately angry.

"Whose child are you? Do you have a tutor? Didn't your parents teach you how to get along with other children? "

The woman pointed at the brothers and scolded them.

My brother was so frightened that he didn't even dare to lift his head on the cushion.

But my brother didn't like it.

So he immediately stuck his neck and shouted to the woman, "we didn't bully her! She can't afford to lose! I can't afford to lose! "

The expression on his brother's face was also very wronged.

At the moment, he is like Xiao Ba Lu who would rather die than surrender, vowing to fight the evil forces to the end.

No, no, No. my honest brother will never carry this kind of black pot.

Now, the woman was really angry with him.

Because she squatted in front of the brothers, she immediately raised her right hand and slapped her brother in the face.

My brother didn't expect the woman to hit him.

But fortunately, Qin Ruoying stopped this slap in time.

Qin Ruoying had just come, but he stood by and didn't speak.

Seeing that women are going to beat their brother, she naturally can no longer sit idly by.

"They are still children. It is normal for children to have a little friction. Your direct intervention as a parent can only lead to greater contradictions..."

After stopping the woman's slap, Qin Ruoying frowned and added, "it's not good."

Friction and contradiction between children is inevitable. Which child didn't fight when he was a child?

Therefore, when parents face this problem, they'd better follow the "three no principles": don't get angry, don't intervene, and don't be afraid of losses.

This seemingly negative attitude is the most basic, simplest and effective way to cultivate children's healthy interpersonal relationship.

Children will be angry, but they will never take revenge.

If there is a little friction between children and parents intervene immediately, this behavior itself is a destructive behavior.

Seemingly meticulous care will actually deprive children of their experience of real life, resulting in children's lack of frustration experience, making their pressure resistance extremely poor and their psychological endurance weakened.

Just because Tiantian cried, the woman directly decided that the brothers bullied Tiantian.

This simple and rude way of thinking will not help the child's growth, but will harm her.

It's called love, but it's actually harmful.

When the brothers saw Qin Ruoying coming, they immediately felt like they had found a backer.